Sometimes it comes in my heart to share conversations from chaste gatherings. The dialogues amongst the pious people are more impactful than rain-water for the nurturing of heart. It is said that if a man possess four qualities, then guaranteed success is 100% possible and the map of the world can be altered and the universe can be made yours.
Even the map and condition of the heart can be modified 100%:

1. Insight
2. Prudence or intelligibility
3. Friendliness
4. Sincerity

It is said that if ego and love for money is present, even in your thoughts. Then the love for money and worldly affairs can cease after a lot of effort but it is very difficult to leave one’s ego. For that you have to work hard and keep on doing efforts for it, continuously.
Dear readers! Affection for Allah and crying for the Prophet Muhammad PBUH and for your loved ones is evident from the Prophets. Not shedding tears does not depict bravery or superiority. The Prophet Muhammad PBUH cried a lot on the martyrdom of Hazrat Hamza RA and the death of His son, Hazrat Ibrahim AS. Crying ceases the grief of heart, makes one feels light and improves physical health. If a person is crying due to fear or desire, then he acquires strong bond with Allah. Similarly, a case came to my notice in which the young man suffered from fits; he was a psychological patient; experienced stress; he couldn’t differentiate between family and strangers; kept on doing destructions. Once he jumped off the roof and got severely injured. At time he acted in such vulgar manners which cannot be stated. The reason for all this is that when his father expired, he dint even shed a tear due to his dignity, superiority and bravery. He used to say that it’s normal; everyone’s father expires. Soon after this event, his condition started worsening and it led to mental illness. Thus, staying within the limits of shariyat and crying is not cowardice.